๐Ÿค Live in Community

Being part of a community is a skill.

Learn how to understand other people, communicate what you need, solve disagreements, respect differences, and help without taking over.

โค๏ธ What Is Empathy?

You don't have to feel exactly what someone else feels to care about what they're experiencing.

Empathy starts with noticing, listening, and trying to understand another person's perspective.

๐ŸŽฅ Sesame Workshop โ€” Caring & Sharing

https://sesameworkshop.org/topics/caring-sharing/

๐ŸŒฑ TRY IT: When someone has a strong feeling, try asking:

What happened?
How might they feel?
What might they need?

๐Ÿ’ญ THINK: Can two people experience the same situation differently?

๐Ÿ‘€ See It From Another Side

There can be more than one perspective.

Two people can experience the exact same event and understand it differently.

๐ŸŽฅ PBS KIDS โ€” Social & Emotional Learning

https://pbskids.org/learn/social-emotional/

๐ŸŒฑ TRY IT: The next time two characters disagree in a show, pause.

Ask:

What does each person want?

What does each person know?

What might each person not know?

๐Ÿ’ญ THINK: Understanding someone doesn't always mean agreeing with them.

โš–๏ธ Equal Isn't Always Fair

Sometimes people need different things to participate.

Giving everyone exactly the same thing is equality.

Making sure people have what they need to participate is equity.

๐Ÿ‘€ Explore Disability & Accessibility

Smithsonian โ€” Accessibility for Kids & Families

https://access.si.edu/

๐ŸŒฑ TRY IT: Look around your school, playground, library, or neighborhood.

Could someone participate if they:

โ™ฟ Used a wheelchair?
๐Ÿฆฏ Couldn't see?
๐ŸŽง Were sensitive to loud sounds?
๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Communicated without speech?

๐Ÿ’ญ THINK: What could make the space work better for more people?

๐Ÿง  Different Brains Work Differently

There isn't one correct way for a brain to experience the world.

People can communicate, learn, move, focus, play, socialize, and experience sensory information differently.

๐Ÿง  Sesame Workshop โ€” Autism Resources

https://sesameworkshop.org/topics/autism/

๐ŸŒฑ TRY IT: Think about something that helps you concentrate.

Quiet?
Music?
Moving?
Drawing?
Talking?
Being alone?

Someone else may need something completely different.

๐Ÿ’ญ THINK: Different doesn't automatically mean wrong.

๐Ÿ›‘ Boundaries Matter

You can say no. Other people can too.

Healthy communities require people to communicate and respect boundaries.

๐ŸŽฅ Sesame Workshop โ€” Healthy Bodies, Healthy Minds

https://sesameworkshop.org/topics/healthy-bodies-healthy-minds/

Practice saying:

๐Ÿ›‘ Stop, please.

๐Ÿ™… I don't want to.

โ†”๏ธ I need some space.

๐Ÿงธ I'm still using this.

โ“ Can I have a turn?

And practice hearing:

โ€œNo.โ€

without trying to pressure someone into changing their answer.

๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Communication Doesn't Always Mean Talking

People communicate in lots of ways.

People may use:

๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Speech
๐ŸคŸ Sign language
๐Ÿ“ฑ AAC devices
๐Ÿ–ผ๏ธ Pictures
๐Ÿ‘‰ Gestures
โœ๏ธ Writing
๐Ÿ™‚ Facial expressions
๐Ÿง Body language

๐ŸคŸ American Society for Deaf Children โ€” ASL Resources

https://deafchildren.org/knowledge-center/asl-resources/

๐ŸŒฑ TRY IT: Learn a few useful signs.

HELP

MORE

STOP

THANK YOU

๐Ÿ’ญ THINK: If someone doesn't speak, does that mean they have nothing to say?

No.

๐Ÿค How Do We Solve a Disagreement?

A conflict doesn't always need a winner and a loser.

Instead of asking:

โ€œWho's right?โ€

Try asking:

1. What happened?

2. What do I need?

3. What does the other person need?

4. Is there a solution that respects both?

๐ŸŽฅ PBS KIDS โ€” Social & Emotional Learning

https://pbskids.org/learn/social-emotional/

๐ŸŒฑ TRY IT: The next time characters disagree in a movie or show, invent a solution neither character suggested.

๐Ÿงฉ Cooperation Is Different From Competition

Sometimes the goal isn't to beat everyone else.

People can solve problems by combining different abilities and ideas.

๐ŸŽฎ TRY IT: Build Together

Give everyone paper, blocks, recycled materials, LEGO, or cardboard.

Create one thing together.

The rule:

Nobody owns the project.

Everyone contributes something.

๐Ÿ’ญ THINK: Did someone notice something you didn't?

That's one reason groups can sometimes solve problems better than individuals.

๐ŸŒ People Live Differently

Your normal isn't everyone's normal.

Families around the world can have different:

๐Ÿฒ Foods
๐Ÿ‘• Clothing
๐Ÿ  Homes
๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ Languages
๐ŸŽ‰ Celebrations
๐ŸŽต Music
๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘งโ€๐Ÿ‘ฆ Family structures
๐ŸŒŽ Traditions

๐ŸŒ National Geographic Kids โ€” Countries

https://kids.nationalgeographic.com/geography/countries

๐ŸŒฑ TRY IT: Pick a country you know very little about.

Learn:

What do kids eat?

What languages might they speak?

What does school look like?

What games do children play?

๐Ÿ’ญ THINK: Different ways of living aren't automatically better or worse than yours.

๐Ÿซถ Helping Without Taking Over

Helping starts with listening.

Sometimes we see someone having difficulty and immediately decide what they need.

Instead:

๐Ÿ‘€ NOTICE

๐Ÿ‘‚ LISTEN

โ“ ASK

๐Ÿค HELP TOGETHER

Try:

โ€œWould you like help?โ€

instead of automatically taking over.

๐Ÿ’ญ THINK: How would you feel if someone kept โ€œhelpingโ€ you without asking?

๐Ÿ˜๏ธ What Does a Community Need?

A community is much more than houses and roads.

Communities depend on people doing thousands of different things.

๐ŸšŒ Transportation workers
๐Ÿ“š Librarians
๐Ÿง‘โ€๐Ÿซ Teachers
๐ŸŒพ Farmers
๐Ÿงน Sanitation workers
๐Ÿ”ง Repair workers
๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€โš•๏ธ Healthcare workers
๐ŸŒณ Park workers
๐Ÿณ Food workers
๐Ÿง‘โ€๐Ÿผ Caregivers
๐Ÿช Local businesses
๐Ÿค Volunteers
๐Ÿ  Neighbors

๐ŸŒฑ TRY IT: Pick one person whose work you saw today.

Ask:

What would happen if nobody did their job?

๐Ÿค The Community Challenge

This week, do one thing that makes your community a little stronger.

You could:

๐Ÿ“š Put a book in a Little Free Library.

๐Ÿ—‘๏ธ Pick up litter with an adult.

๐ŸŒฑ Help in a garden.

๐Ÿ‘‹ Learn a neighbor's name.

๐Ÿงธ Share something.

๐Ÿ’Œ Thank someone whose work is usually overlooked.

โค๏ธ Invite someone into a game.

๐Ÿ› ๏ธ Help repair something instead of replacing it.

๐Ÿ‘‚ Listen to someone whose experience is different from yours.

Then ask:

Did I solve something for someoneโ€”or did I work with them?

โญ One Big Idea

You don't have to agree with everyone.

You don't have to be exactly like everyone.

And you don't have to solve everyone's problems.

A strong community makes room for different people while helping them live, learn, solve problems, and care for one another.

๐Ÿค Keep Exploring

PBS KIDS

https://pbskids.org/

Sesame Workshop

https://sesameworkshop.org/

National Geographic Kids

https://kids.nationalgeographic.com/

American Society for Deaf Children

https://deafchildren.org/

LISTEN โ€ข UNDERSTAND โ€ข COMMUNICATE โ€ข COOPERATE